They get all wound up because some guy totally swept them off their feet. This is where I see a lot of women get confused. He flirts with you… but he flirts with everyone else, too.
The best thing you can do to tell if a guy likes you is pay close attention to how he interacts with others in general. He’ll have some special way of talking to her, or extend some special kind of attention to her that he doesn’t generally extend. When a guy is interested in a woman, there’s always a slight difference in the way he interacts with her. There’s no difference between how he talks to you vs. A guy will make the time for a woman he’s interested in. Missing a date or two is one thing, but if this is a regular occurrence then it becomes telling. He sets up dates last minute, he keeps rescheduling, he flakes constantly on you – if any of this sounds familiar, he’s not that into you (as they say). In fact, I lay out the foundations for all the most common relationship advice problems here, so you can check that page out. Negative body language cues include: avoiding eye contact, positioning his body away from you, not engaging in the conversation (non-verbal signs of this are him not smiling while talking to you, or not nodding and showing active interest in what you’re saying), maintaining distance from you, looking around the room while talking to you… It’s usually pretty obvious when someone isn’t focused on you. MORE: 10 Guaranteed Signs He Doesn’t Like You 4. On that same note, if you talk to him and he always finds a way to stop talking to you, or always lets the conversation fizzle out and die, then it’s very likely a sign he doesn’t like you in a romantic sense. If he has ample opportunity to talk to you and never acts on it, that’s a sign he’s not interested. Guys and their texting habits can be tricky, and you can’t use that to assess his level of interest. If he doesn’t have an interest in talking to you, it’s pretty much a given that he’s not interested.īut don’t assume he’s not interested based on something like him not texting you back immediately.
QUIZ: Am I Accidentally Destroying My Love Life? 3. If he talks to you about other women, or a relationship with a woman, casually and comfortably, that’s a likely sign he’s not into you (in a romantic sense, at least). So maybe you and him talk on a regular basis. He talks to you about being interested in other women comfortably. And if you don’t see that tending to happen with this guy, it’s a sign he does not like you. You may not have noticed it before, but once you start paying attention you’ll completely notice it. He’ll always just seem to end up in the same parts of the room as you. It’s the fact that one way or another, they always seem to be acting that particularly different way only around her. Or be annoying.īut if they’re into her, it’s not a matter of how they’re acting. It’s funny – guys will act a hundred different ways around the woman they like… they’ll even completely ignore her! Or tease her. If he’s not into you, he won’t be “around.” This is the biggest sign of whether or not a guy is into you.